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Signs That Keeping Someone Around You is Dangerous! CUT THEM OFF!
In this life, you are a product of who you surround yourself with. People influence your life in a huge way. That means that what people would say to you will matter a lot. You are a product of words. However, not everyone that is around you will have your best interest at heart. They might just be there to see you fall. Men look at the outward appearance but God looks at the heart. He does not look at what men look at. When God sent Samuel to anoint a king in Jesse's house, Samuel was particular about how they looked like physically. All that mattered to him was whether they will be able to fight physical battles. God was looking for a man with a pure and honest heart, David. So, you should not judge people based on what you see. What you can choose to do is to prayerfully choose who your friends are going to be. Not everybody around you has good intentions. Before Jesus chose his disciples, he prayed. Yet, there was still one person who did not have a good intention, Judas. He betrayed Jesus for money. That shows that there is more to a man than what you see physically.
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When someone consistently makes you upset, hurt and depressed, that person is not good for your mental health. They bring a lot of negativity around you. They say and do things to deliberately put you down. You begin to notice that you are uncomfortable around them. They begin to feel like you are not enough and that you need to do something to make them happy but many times that is not the case. You are only wasting your time trying to please them. People are not how you imagine them to be, sometimes. There are people that are used of God and there are people that are used of the devil to cause you harm. Your heart should be still in seasons like that, in difficult times where no one seems to understand you. They only seem to bring you down. You must know that you are stronger than anything that is thrown at you. You have God as your Father. That means that you have an advantage. It is the advantage of having someone to run to, someone who cares and who understands what and how you feel. God is not a statue. He knows what you are going through and he understands everything. God wants you to communicate with him about everything that is happening to you.
However, when you notice that you are usually anxious, sad or tense after talking to someone or chatting with the person or calling the person, you are most likely dealing with a toxic person.
Here are warning signs that you are dealing with someone that is not good for your mental health.
1. They are judgmental. They quickly jump into conclusions and make assumptions about you. They are always quick to think that they are the perfect people or that they have better ways of doing what you can do. They pick on every fault of yours and make you feel miserable. To them, you are unworthy. They do not see the beauty in you. Instead, all they want to do is to put you down and make you feel worthless. These kind of people also have flaws but they want to put you down instead. They never see the good in you. They never see the positives. They will first dwell on the negative. They will talk about all the mistakes that you have made in the past and use them to paint how your future is going to look like. You might feel really terrible and find it hard to believe that someone can think that of you. Before you realize it, you will begin to have low self esteem. There will be a conflict in your heart as to whether you are capable or not, or whether you are a good person or not. You begin to doubt yourself and your skills. If you allow the negative criticism to get into you, you might start to become afraid of people. You do not want people to talk so you would begin to do things that will please them or that will make them not talk. This, in fact, is a form of control. You will only live to do what people say, whether it is good or bad, because you are afraid or timid. It takes away your voice and makes you not to stand for yourself or for what you believe.
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